I don't really know how to describe Malyki other a wonderful kid who is has a hard time being the oldest. Its natural to expect more out of your older children, right. This is Malyki's favorite phase lately, "Why is it always me?'' Sometimes I wonder if he has an attention deficit disorder or he has the same problem as me. Stress, stress, and more stress. I ask him to do the simplest things, and its always the same result, he didn't hear. At least until I'm doing it mayself and smoke is coming out of my ears. And it seems that he doesn't know when to stop, or when certain behavior is acceptable. I've tried to explain that his brothers watch him and do the things they see him do. So rough play in the store is not ok. His brothers get disciplined for poor behavior, but he doesn't recognize that. I hope I can give him some one on one time this summer to boost his confidence and help him not feel so picked on.Sunday, May 10, 2009
Malyki
I don't really know how to describe Malyki other a wonderful kid who is has a hard time being the oldest. Its natural to expect more out of your older children, right. This is Malyki's favorite phase lately, "Why is it always me?'' Sometimes I wonder if he has an attention deficit disorder or he has the same problem as me. Stress, stress, and more stress. I ask him to do the simplest things, and its always the same result, he didn't hear. At least until I'm doing it mayself and smoke is coming out of my ears. And it seems that he doesn't know when to stop, or when certain behavior is acceptable. I've tried to explain that his brothers watch him and do the things they see him do. So rough play in the store is not ok. His brothers get disciplined for poor behavior, but he doesn't recognize that. I hope I can give him some one on one time this summer to boost his confidence and help him not feel so picked on.
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Chelcy,
ReplyDeleteDad is on the earth watching over us daily. Maybe you should find a quiet place and find him--He is there. What do you think he wants to tell you? I believe Dad would want you to know that you need to get down on your knees and pray to your Heavenly Father, He loves you, He wants to bless, help and comfort you and He wants to heal your heart. Our father had a testimony of the gospel, he had a testimony of the power of prayer, and he wanted to be a "forever family." Dad loves you and wants you to find happiness.